Everyone has something to call it imperfect. We are not perfect beings. We have flaws naturally imprinted. Not every flaw get’s accepted by us. We say YES when someone calls us ‘Perfect’, but say NO when someone calls us ‘Imperfect’. Than disapproving their opinion right away, self validation is a better way of understanding ourselves. We don’t have to validate the opinion coming from every person. But a person who has been with us for long time like friends or neighbours who have been known us since childhood, when these near people tell us an opinion, validation is the right approach for the betterment of yourself and your relation. This is the basic language of empathy. People who understand this are always available for self-correction. As long as the imperfection can be dissolved by the willingness of one’ self, relationships they make last longer.
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